How I Lead

Synthesise the day into a personal leadership picture.

The closing session of the Leadership Skills workshop. Each participant synthesises the day's work into a personal leadership picture: a set of honest, specific statements about how they lead, what they are committing to strengthen, and what kind of leader they intend to be from here.

Type
Exercise
Time
90 minutes
Group size
1-12 people
Best as
Personal synthesis
In depth

A little more detail.

Most workshops end with a list of actions. This session ends with something more substantial: a personal picture of leadership that participants will actually return to. By drawing one question from each session in the day, the synthesis captures how they intend to lead, which is more durable and more useful than a to-do list. The pairs sharpening exercise, familiar from the Leadership Statement work earlier in the day, ensures that what ends up on the page is specific and honest rather than aspirational.

The share-back moment, where two or three people read one line they are proud of, is often the most powerful point in the day. It gives the room a sense of what has shifted, and it models the kind of honest self-examination that good leadership requires.

Outcomes

What you'll leave with.

Participants leave with a completed personal leadership picture drawn from every session in the day, a clear articulation of how they intend to lead, and one specific commitment to act on in the first week.

Facilitation notes

How to run it.

Bring the day's work together into a personal leadership picture. People synthesise their commitments individually, sharpen the language in pairs, test them in small groups, share a line with the whole room, and name one first action.

one
30 minutes

People work individually with a set of prompts drawn from the day. Give them a simple sheet or some whiteboard space and five questions to answer in the first person. What do I believe about how people do their best work? Which of the conditions for a high-performing team does my team most need me to focus on, and what does that look like in practice? What one specific change will I make to strengthen motivation and engagement in my team? What will I do to make my priorities clearer and more consistently communicated? How will I lead differently when my team is under pressure or facing uncertainty? Give around thirty minutes for solo writing, and encourage people to be specific. The test for each statement: would someone observing you next week be able to tell whether you had done it?

two
20 minutes

In pairs, people share their answers and help each other sharpen the language. Push each statement towards the specific. "I will communicate better" tells nobody anything. "I will have a five-minute conversation with each person on my team every Monday about their priorities for the week" is a commitment. Give each person real time to be challenged and to rework their weakest statement.

three
20 minutes

In small groups of three or four, people talk through the leadership pictures they have built. Each person takes a couple of minutes to share the statements that matter most to them, and the group offers one honest observation on each: where it rings true, and where it could be sharper or more specific. Then draw out the themes across the group. Where do their commitments align, where do they differ, and what does that tell them about how this team leads? The aim is to move each person's picture from private reflection to something they have said out loud and tested against peers.

four
10 minutes

Invite two or three people to share one line from their leadership picture, the statement they are most proud of or the one that surprised them most. Keep it calm and give it space. This moment is usually the most powerful in the day.

five
10 minutes

Each person states one thing they will do in the first week that honours what they have written. These are named in the room, in front of peers, without review or critique. Close by naming the shift: people came in with a set of habits, instincts, and assumptions, and they are leaving with a clearer picture of how they lead and a more deliberate set of commitments.

When to use it

Use How I Lead to close a leadership day. Each person synthesises the day's work into an honest, specific picture of how they lead, what they will strengthen and the kind of leader they intend to be, ending on one commitment to act on.

Use it when

  • You are closing a leadership day and want each person to leave with a personal picture.
  • Participants have done varied sessions and need to synthesise them.
  • You want commitments named in the room, not a to-do list.

Not the right tool when

  • No prior leadership work has been done to synthesise.
  • The session needs to teach, not consolidate.
Used in

Workshops that feature this tool.

Use it with your team

This tool works best in a well-facilitated room.

Using this tool with a skilled facilitator means that discussions are focused, time is used efficiently, and the group moves toward consensus, making the session productive and impactful.